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Once You Decide Everything Will Work Out It Does

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When you decide that everything will work out, it actually will. When you stop wishing for things and just wanting things and embody what we’re going to talk about today, you are going to notice that it’s only going to be a matter of time before what it is you’re looking to bring about comes about. You’ve probably heard of the power of belief and the power of identity and things of this nature. And it’s very, very true. Remembering that you are connected to the creator. You are a creator. And so you don’t ask for things necessarily or you don’t want things. You in a way command for things. You create things. You are not some poor person lost at sea hoping for life to throw you a bone. You are creating in every single moment, every single second of every single day. And so when you decide that everything will work out, it absolutely will for multiple reasons. Again, there is a power of conviction and power in belief.

And again, you may have heard of these ideas. I’m going to give you a technique in order to start developing your beliefs so that you can use this effectively. But essentially, again, you don’t get what you want. You get who you are. And who are you really? When we try to deconstruct who you are in the context of which we are talking about it here, who you are is your beliefs. It’s the dominant vibration you’re sending out most of the time. It is your convictions. That is if we were to look at a person and go, who is this person? We would look at what they believe, what their convictions are. They’re a pretty negative person, a pretty positive person. They seem always happy and playful. They seem to always be integrous, right? These are beliefs, convictions, and identities. And whatever those are stored within your subconscious that are embedded into your being is what you are going to receive in your life. There is no coincidence that someone who is incredibly negative, who does not believe that everything works out and believes everything doesn’t work out has everything not work out. And there is a reason and I know people like this. In fact, I myself am like this. There is a reason why people who believe everything will work out and it does because the power of your belief as a creator cannot be overstated. And so one of the biggest things we have to do when it comes to this because what does having a conviction mean? Right? What does having a true belief mean? Because we might say I believe in this or that. But a lot of people say they believe in things that they’re not really convicted about. Right? They’ll say they believe in a certain principle and then they won’t apply it at all. Right? A conviction means that you fully without doubt believe in something. Right? And so when it’s time to act, when it’s time to move in accordance to whatever that conviction is, it’s a no-brainer. It’s just what you do because it just is who you are. You know, when I say something, if you have the conviction that when you decide everything will work out, there won’t be any commentary on this isn’t true or kind of fear come up or whatever else because there won’t be any doubt there because it’s a part of your identity. It is a conviction. It is a true belief. It comes down to kind of the idea of it will happen. That’s it. Period. And this is the belief we want to start building when it comes to our creations and our manifestations. And again, when you know the universal principles and laws, you understand, you know, how this works. That it’s not going to be instantaneous. You know, we live in time and space here in the 3D. We have other parts of ourselves absolutely that are non-physical. But you understand it’s going to happen. That’s it. Period. It’s only a matter of time. And you know what? It’s going to happen at the perfect time for me. And when you have this conviction, when you eliminate doubt, you’re going to be amazed at what starts flying into your life. Because ultimately, when you’re doing this and you are confident in all this, confidence always breeds success. To the person who is doubtful, there is no confidence. To the person who doesn’t have conviction in their creations and their manifestations, lacks the confidence and has doubt that basically disrupts the manifestation process. You see, when you have doubt, the way you can think about it is if you are trying to create something and you are directing your energy towards that thing. Let’s say you’re directing your energy towards a particular goal and you’re doing it over and over again. You’re building up this energy. Doubt is the equivalent of turning off that energy. And so, for example, if you were growing a seed and the energy was you watering the seed and you had energy towards it and you kept that conviction and you were confident about it and you were watering the seed, doubt is what turns off the water. It stops feeding the manifestation or whatever it is you’re aiming to create. And so, we need to eliminate doubt and we need to instill confidence. And again, let’s go over how we can actually do that. So, how do we build conviction or beliefs? Or we could throw in confidence as well. And confidence is something that’s talked about a lot, but again, it’s something that we always need to come back to. Because when you’re confident, the way you move will completely change. And I’m not talking about temporary confidence. I’m talking about a conviction of confidence. You have a conviction that you are confident that you can do it no matter what. That you’re going to do it. That’s it. Period. When that is a conviction and you have confidence in that belief, everything begins to change. Right? So, how do we build conviction belief? Now, there’s many ways to do this and I’ve covered other ways to do this, but I want to focus on one of the most simple and probably most effective ones and then show you how to do this. And the most one of the most effective ways to build this is simple is wins, right?

The more that you win, the more successes you have, the more your confidence and conviction and belief in this will go up, which will then lead to more wins and more confidence and more everything that we’re talking about. Now, that might seem very simple, but a lot of people were not doing this because they think that a win has to be this grandiose thing. They think that when it comes to winning, manifesting, creating reality, it has to be this lifealtering win. And that’s fantastic. And certainly those things will give you confidence too. When you manifest a new house and create a new house for yourself, obviously that’s going to give you some confidence in your abilities. When you attract in an amazing partner that’s perfect for you, great. When you attract in a ton of money, a new job, whatever, fantastic. But most people then believe that is the standard. And let’s say they have very few wins under their belt, believe that’s what they have to aim for. they don’t have the confidence in doing that or the conviction therefore eliciting doubt meaning they never get there which then brings more forth more doubt less confidence and all of this begins to fall apart. So how can we not circumn that but recontextualize it or change the way we approach it so that you are building wins and confidence so you can have conviction in this and you can get to the point where you’re just deciding everything is going to work out because it always does that it will happen. That’s it. Period. Nothing else to add. No, no other commentary needed. It’s going to happen. How can we get to this level of conviction? And this is where we bring in something that you’ve heard me talk about before, but we’re going to do it in a bit of a different way called a sweet spot. Oops.

Now, what a sweet spot is is a goal, a very particular type of goal known as a DCA. But we can do this for anything. We could even do this for new beliefs that you’re trying to form. You see, most people when it comes to the goals they want to achieve, especially if they haven’t succeeded that much yet or if they’re used to the hustle and grind and just forcing results through, which comes with a ton of issues, right? And so this new way of going about it or when people do that, what they end up trying to do is they aim either way too high and again achieve some of those bigger things that I mentioned and thinking that’s where they what they have to do. They see someone else do something and that’s great. It can inspire you, but that might not be where you’re at. If you see someone who let’s say is in the equivalent of seventh grade do something at that level but you’re in second then to attempt to do that is just going to overwhelm you and elicit more doubt. The second thing is we also need to bring in excitement. And so the two parts of a sweet spot is is something you are excited about. Now why why do we need excitement? Because excitement is the energy flow. Excitement is the watering of the seed. Right? It’s the energy going into and directing you towards whatever it is you want to achieve. whatever it is you want to manifest. But the second part that we need is belief.

And this is probably the one most people struggle with, which is the whole point of this video is a lot of people do not have the belief. They do not have the conviction. And they believe it’s a black and white scenario. Either I am confident or I’m not. Either I have the belief or conviction in this or I don’t. Not recognizing that we can build our way there through finding where this sweet spot is for you currently. achieving that sweet spot which is going to give you a win and build a ton more conviction and belief in this and confidence in doing this. And so if we approach it from this method rather than feeling I need to be 20 moves ahead or 20 levels up and rather focus on the level we’re on so that we get win after win after win. Guess what having those wins do? They increase your confidence like nothing else. There are very few things that will improve your confidence in all of this reality or anything really um than winning. And again, what are we saying when we mean winning? Meaning you set a goal and you hit it, right? Doesn’t matter how big the goal is, but you following through on something and getting the result. And the more we have that, guess what? The next time you make a new goal, guess what happens when your confidence goes up? You have more capacity to now set a bigger goal and then a bigger goal and then a bigger goal. and you build this momentum where you could be very far away from your initial goal as far as it’s um how big your goal is, right? So, you could be so far removed from this goal when you’re over here even though it doesn’t need to take that much time. Meaning, this is going to be so big that the person that was here at this goal would never even imagine they can get to this place. But when we do it in this way, it’s going to be very quick uh very quick. And an example I can give you and I’ll give you an easy one because financial ones are very easy to track and you can see the obvious difference. When I first started this setting a DCA, so with this sweet spot and I wanted to do it for finances, um I wasn’t very confident at that point when it came to being able to generate wealth or finances because I hadn’t really done that at that point. I didn’t have too much conviction or belief and I had a ton of doubt when it come to came to certain amounts, right? You know, one of the magic numbers for a lot of people is 10K a month. And so for a very long time, I had that goal that I wanted to make 10K a month or 10K in a month. And I thought, well, that’s the goal I have to aim for because that seems to be the standard that would do so much for me, etc., etc. But where I was was so far off that and I didn’t have the conviction or belief or confidence. It wasn’t embedded in me that I could do that. And so I decided to start doing it from this sweet spot instead and build my way up. And I started with a incredibly small goal. It still excited me because it was more than I was currently making, but it ended up being like a few hundred more in a month than I had I had been making. Right now, guess what? because I had that in the sweet spot. I was excited but also fully believed I could hit this amount. I hit it. I hit it pretty quickly. And then because I had that win, my confidence grew. And let me tell you, isn’t usually grow just a little bit. It grew by a lot. And then so I added, you know what? I think I can make a few more thousand. So suddenly a bigger jump in a month. And it took me not that long to make that one. I think it was two months it took me to make that. And then my third one was over 10K. And so it didn’t take me long to get there, but because I built up the wins and the momentum to get that sweet spot calibrated where I was excited but had confidence. When you have that confidence, that conviction, that attitude now that it’s just going to work out because you’re not throwing doubt at it, it starts flying in. The nonlinear process, the principles of the universe start again, they say the idea of moving mountain and earth. you you you only have the faith of a mustard seed, right? That is no doubt. That is conviction. That is belief. And this doesn’t mean you have to just magically believe something. It means start where you’re at. Where is that level of your belief where there is no doubt and then build from there. And I promise you, it can happen very quickly. And so, getting back to my example, hit the 10K. And I think it took me I forget how long it took me to do all of that, a few months. And then I went way beyond that. And I think when all was said and done, it was a total of like eight or nine months where I was getting to like, you know, much bigger numbers. And I had started out at maybe not even half or like like a fourth or whatever, way more way less than that, right? And if I had stayed with having a goal that was outside my belief where I couldn’t generate what we’re talking about here, I would probably to this day still be in that situation. But because I focused on having the wins and having the sweet spot, it developed the belief and the conviction. It started becoming embedded in my being that this is just something that I can do. No doubt that it will happen. That’s it. Period. And then at each win that gets embedded more into you. You expand your ability to expand your vision, your dream, and your goals goes way up when you do it in this way. So I’m going to show you another example very quickly of how you can apply this. Okay. So here’s a way we can do this. We’re just going to call this the ladder exercise. And I think this is a great way of describing how you can find what’s the sweet spot, but also within your belief zone. Again, what most people are doing, let’s say you’re at a ladder, and the higher up you get on the ladder, the more success you have, the better you feel, the more money you’re making, etc. Like your goals and what it is you wish to achieve are further up the ladder. We’re climbing further up. We’re seeing new viewpoints. It’s fantastic, right? But what most people are doing is again they have this idea that they should be further ahead than they should be, right? They see someone’s lifestyle, maybe they see someone making a certain amount or whatever. And again, these are good things because it provides you with contrast. It allows you to be aspirational and certainly have something that you can aspire towards. But if you then make that your goal when that is so far up the ladder that you’d be reaching like this and never able to reach it from where you currently are, well, guess what happens? You never climb up the ladder. And this is what happens for most people. They’re essentially holding on to the ladder and they want to go further up this ladder, but they’re looking 20 rungs up and going like, “Oh, that’s so cool. That’s what I want.” And they’re reaching for it, but it’s well out of reach. And in the meantime, you’re just on the same place in the ladder over and over and over again. You’re never moving. And in fact, sometimes you can get so tired and you lose your grip at this level, you can go a few rungs down. And this is how most people are approaching it. So, let’s say most people are right here on the ladder and they want to get to up here like this is their we’ll say dream or we’ll say north star because I’m going to give you a way where you can still have this goal. You can still have this vision but it isn’t the focus necessarily or your next step, the next rung in the ladder. And what most people are trying to do again is go directly from here to here. But there’s all these other rungs in the way and they’re also there for a reason. If you’re in second grade and not in eighth grade, there’s a reason for it. You have to graduate second and third and fourth and fifth. Now, with reality creation, there’s nothing to say that you can’t climb the ladder quickly, but you are not going to leap from here to here, right? Because the conviction, the belief um won’t be where it needs to be to do it and that you’ll be doubting all the way up. And so, you’ll try climbing, you’ll slip down, you’ll end up going further than where you even started a lot of the time. And so, this is what most people are doing. It’s why they’re failing and they’re staying in place. And again, sometimes even going down a little further. And if you look at most people in your life, especially those who are maybe not really developing or more negative or whatever else, you can kind of see that they recreate the same life for themselves over and over and over again. They’re pretty much in the same situation year on year out or a little bit worse, sometimes much worse because this is essentially what’s going on or they’re not even aiming for anything. And if you’re not aiming for anything, you will get essentially nothing. Right? So most people are operating in this way. And what I’m encouraging you to do that, again, this is not just something I’m pulling out my butt. This absolutely works. I’ve helped people do this, is I’m saying, well, what is a sweet spot? Again, remember what that is. So that is excitement mixed with belief. Where is the sweet spot where you’re excited because you’re growing, you’re expanding, and you’re you’re achieving more of your goal, but you believe you can also reach what is within range. So for some people that might just be one rung up. For others that might even be two rungs up. But what is that for you? So in my example where I mentioned the money part and I was trying to improve my finances. At the first time I went to do that I I probably was like a half rung. I was like on the half rung here. But let’s just say for the sake of uh this example, it was just one rung up. So this is where it was. I wanted to be up here which at my at my um perspective like the ultimate at that point was $10,000 in a month. I was like that would be amazing to experience right and again this evolves over time by the way because once you are here guess what the ladder doesn’t stop you just then start deliciously anticipating something else and a new ladder forms it’s a beautiful process to be a part of by the way this is not hustling and grinding the way you do this is you enjoy the process all the way through so in that example I went up one rung I was excited and believed I could do it fully believed it no doubt it was like a few hundred more dollars or something a month but that’s where I was At that point, doesn’t matter where anyone else is, what other people have achieved or anything else. That’s where my level of belief was at the time. Now, once I hit that, I hit that few hundreds, I’m now further up the ladder. I’m getting some wind in my sales, right? I’m gaining some confidence. And so, I actually, in this example, let’s just say moved up two rungs. I started aiming a little bit higher. And here’s the crazy thing. I actually hit this one faster than I hit the first one. Right? Because there’s a magic to when your conviction goes up or when you have stronger convictions, when your confidence goes up, when your belief is more locked in. And so I moved from here and I I think it was like a couple more thousand or a few more thousand than I was making in a month. And I got to that. And then from here, I ended up getting from that one to the 10K. Notice how each one is a little bit longer, right? because of the m momentum built when you get wins. It’s not like a one plus one plus one plus one. Your confidence can exponentially increase. Meaning that it’s almost as if your arms start getting longer the higher up the ladder you go, right? Or you get stronger, so you’re able to climb faster. You know, like you could think of it like you’re weak in the beginning and you’re only able to climb one rung before getting tired and needing to stop for a while. Whereas, as you keep going and you gain the muscle and you build the winds, you’re able to go higher and higher and higher. And so for yourself, you need to ask yourself, what is that next or best next rung for me that I can be excited about, but also fully believe? And remember, when we say belief, we’re talking about conviction, meaning zero doubt. This is not something like, yeah, I 90% believe I can do it. That’s not going to cut it because you’ll be watering the seed and then doubt and it’ll go off. And I’ve seen a lot of people try and dance around this like they’ll still basically make the mistake of aiming too high because they think they’re leaving something on the table. They don’t. But I promise you if you aim too high, you’re leaving everything on the table. Most people again will just stay here because they’re aiming here. They’re never moving up the ladder, never gaining that momentum, the wins and developing that conviction and therefore stay in place. And you can find, I’m sure, even in your own life plenty of examples of this whether it’s for yourself or people you um observe, right? And so if you do it in this way, not only will you guarantee you’re moving up the ladder, but you will be able to move up the ladder faster and faster. And this has been so um prominent in my own life when I’ve started getting really good at this. I noticed the momentum just increasing my confidence going up to where now I believe things that can that will come in that they’re just going to come in that you know many years ago I would have never dreamed of being able to have come in, right? Whether it’s certain amounts of money, whether it’s like a dream home, whether it’s, you know, the way I feel on a day-to-day basis, I go back many years ago and that was so far outside of my awareness and my reality. But because I did it in this way, that now has gotten to the point where that’s an easy thing. And it’s like I absolutely believe that. I have conviction around that. And by doing this, you build that conviction. So determine what is your sweet spot. How far up the ladder can you reach where you’re 100% confident that you will be able to do it? Now, there’s a way we can break this down even more is um right now the sweet spot. This is what’s known as a DCA and the north star is your dream.

And this is how you start generating more excitement with this. So again, I still wanted to make $10,000 in a month when I was doing this first example. I knew that’s where I wanted to go, but I knew it’s not what I could not to focus on, right? But by knowing that’s where I wanted to go, it dictated what I needed to focus on. So I’m like, “Okay, I want to get here.” We can think of it like that was the dream, my dream at the time, because from where I was, that’s as big as I could dream at the time. It seems silly to me now, right? Where I’m at now to dream that because this is that’s a normal thing now. However, at the time that was my dream, but the dream then helps you to determine the DCA, your definite chief aim or and the sweet spot. Because if I know that’s what I want, I just think, okay, well, I don’t believe I can do that right now, even though I’m excited about that. What is the thing on that same track? So on the same ladder, in this case, it’s the financial ladder, we could say, that I do believe I can do. And so you can create what is it you truly want? What is the biggest you can dream right now? That becomes your ladder, uh, so to speak. And then on that ladder, right, what is the rung that is the sweet spot? because you’re not going to get there in all in one leap and bound, right? You don’t have the conviction for that as of yet. But if you do it like this, you can do it that way. So here’s what I would recommend. Again, dream come up with that first.

What is your dream? And don’t worry about other people’s dreams. You need to feel out for this. Again, my dream in at that point was I just 10K. And there might have been other things I put in there if I was writing it out, but that was like the thing I wanted as far as this was concerned. I just wanted 10K in a month. I thought that would be amazing at the time. Again, that was personal for me at that time, and yours will be personal for you right now. So, don’t put things in there because you’re like, “Oh, I should want this.” And whatever. Stick with where you’re at, how high you can think right now, what’s truly exciting for you at this moment. And that becomes your dream or north star. And then from there, you create the DCA with the sweet spot. It is crucial you have this. If you don’t have the sweet spot, you have no energy. You have no particle flow. Whatever you’re planting cannot grow. So you move from dream to the DCA and your DCA is what you know a rung or two up that you can fully believe in. There’s a great Napoleon Hill quote I love to share because it kind of speaks to this and it’s whatever the mind of man can conceive. Now conceive is dream. Anything you can conceive the mind of man within your mind you can conceive and dream and and think about and visualize whatever the mind of man can conceive that is this part and bring itself to believe this part it can achieve. This truly is the formula because when you lock that in you will be convinced you will be convicted. You will believe fully that you can achieve it and then it becomes what we were talking about in the beginning. As soon as you know that right that you can do it, that’s it. I’m going to do it. At that point, you just decide it’s going to work out because there’s nothing in your way that’s going to stop you. You are a creator and you’ve locked in again that power of creation through following this sweet spot. So, dream DCA, what is that next step? And of course, from here, it’s important to note just in case you’re asking, well, what actions do I take? you take the inspired actions.

When you do this and you do it correctly and you’re now on the frequency of your sweet spot, you’re going to be amazed at what thoughts, ideas, happenings begin to occur to help you achieve whatever that next rung in the ladder is that you’re trying to go for. And this is why things can happen so quick. Again, it’s it’s kind of the biblical quote that um I forget exactly how it goes, but basically um the universe will or God will move mountains, heaven and earth to bring what you want, right? When you kind of have that locked in, it’s kind of talking about this. Neville Goddard explains it better. I can’t remember the exact quote, but if you have the faith of a mustard seed, I think it also talks about you can move kind of heaven and earth, right? And so, if you come in with conviction, it’s not about having confidence that you can do absolutely everything. It’s about well what is it you can have that conviction around and building your conviction from there. So again, we have the excitement. This is kind of um helping you develop um the feeling of the wish fulfilled as Neville Goddard would talk about assuming that. And then this kind of allows you to move with that without doubt because guess what? If you’re doubting, guess what? You’re not feeling the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Not at all. Then you’re on the lower end of the consciousness scale, which is going to bring more of that to you. So that’s going to do it for this video. Now, if you want to learn how I use principles like this and something known as the mirror principle to get to 50K in a month, again, I kept climbing this ladder. we didn’t stop at 10K, then you can check out this video next where I explain how I did that uh using a really powerful concept known as the mirror principle. It’s a kind of deep dive into this concept. So, I’d recommend that video.